Monday, February 19, 2007

Why??

Why does it happen sometimes that a major event in your life does not affect you the way it should and a small, insignificant thing or action leaves you greatly disturbed? Is the human heart so weak that it can’t cope up with a blow that wasn’t even intentional? Why is Love the most powerful thing, which can be the most beautiful and, at the same time, most devastating thing in your life? Why does it happen that you start hating the person you desperately love and even start falling in love with a person you despise? Why do changes have to be so hard? Why can’t a friend be there for us when we need him or her? Why does it happen that the person we trusted the most turns out the most untrustworthy person around? Why can’t we live our lives the way we want to and not let others define it [Its OUR life after all!]? Why doesn't death come easily and at the time we want it to come? Why do we have to go to school? Why can’t people accept us the way we are and not the way we should be? Why is this life so long and yet not enough? Why do people hurt others? Why do other people get hurt when we don’t mean to hurt them? Why does the friendship of years end with an enmity that lasts even longer? Why do some songs make you cry? Why do we cry? Why is crying weakness in some eyes? Why can’t some people just see through us even when we want them to and others can? Why am I asking these questions?




Any Answers????

10 comments:

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Unknown said...

well its just that some events don effect u cause ur not close to the person associated with it,at the same time a lil bit of unstability in ur life because of a person who is really close to u can cause a terrain in ur life,thats how it goes in life,and the questions u asked if answered then we might be termed god instead of humans,u atleast......

§Amrit§ said...

we humans are weak and get hurt easily. Everyone of us HAS got hurt sometime or the other. We need something or someone who doesn't change his/her feelings towards us every now and then. Do you know someone as such? I found him here

'Discover him'

By the way, AR Rehman is doing a nice job. He released a very nice song "pray for me brother". Tell me if you want to download its video.

Unknown said...

why do you feel the same way as me?
or vice versa.
do you need to know why?
Often the moment you accept something for what you have experienced or see in it.. It changes.. Is it sensible to sit and watch the process of a rose open?..It is as it is.Everchanging...
Now me... I have passed judgement and drawn out conclusions...and that is WHY.. I have hurt the ones I have loved most. Selfishness. one of humans most practiced traits.
Interesting day to you.

ankurindia said...

i have answer of your questions on my blog , have a look

Puneet said...

well it is the small things that become big

Anonymous said...

mayb cuz its easier to ask questions than to go ahead and find out the answers..

Unknown said...

Its good that you have these questions and even better that they are still unanswered...coz once you know them , the "uncertain unknown" element will be out of your life and really nothing would be left to explore...so its better to ponder and lament rather than "know"ing it.

Amit Sanger said...

"Why??"....
Well... The last quistion first..."Why I am asking these questions?"..Because you are a human being so its quite normal to have such questions arising in your mind every now and then. And if there are no questions in your mind then you must be anything but a human being. Second... the questions you asked about love need to be asked again, but only when you find out the real meaning of love. Because love in its truest sense is something that you do not yet know perhaps. Otherwise you will never ask " Why you start hating the person......" If you start hating the person you think you loved desperately... Then be sure it was not love...It was just affection. Its difficult to explain in few words why i said so. Infact its really very difficult to define love itself. And now one "why??" for you..... Why are you killing your "Bachpan" in finding the answers of such 'serious' questions???...... Some questions have no answers because the question is not important in itself but the situation in which it arises is what that really matters. So the answers may not be unique always. Also it depends how the person who was asked that question percieves it.And.. Some questions are better not to be answered.... If i wish that may God bless you with all the answers of all the questions you have... Would it be ok? (Here one questions arises in my mind very often "God exists?" hahaha...dont worry .. i know the answer). Dont you think if you'll have all the answers, then life will be so boring. Life is the name of exploring new and solving misteries.....if you have solved all of them .... Then ... GAME OVER....LIFE'S OVER...

P said...

You are asking these questions cuz you are being intelligent. I enjoy those that ask inquisitive questions - its a real measure of ones intelligence.